HOW TO INVITE SOMEONE TO CHURCH

Did you know that a personal invitation is the most effective way to encourage someone to attend church? In fact, 8 out of 10 people will say “yes” to a personal invite, yet 7 in 10 unchurched people have never been invited. 

I get it! Inviting someone to church can feel daunting, but it’s a simple way to show care for others and extend a warm invitation to community and faith. With a few thoughtful approaches and some welcoming phrases, you can make your invitation feel genuine, friendly, and pressure-free. Here are some ideas and sentence starters to help you reach out to others with confidence and kindness.

Highlight the Community and Benefits

When inviting someone to church, it can help to emphasize the sense of community and support they’ll experience. Church isn’t just a place of worship—it’s a place to connect with others and find encouragement. This is a way to invite someone who is looking for a place to belong.

Sentence Starters:

“One of the things I love most about my church is how welcoming everyone is. It truly feels like I belong and I’m part of a family.”

 

I love going to church each week. It’s a chance to reset and connect with others in a positive way. I’d love for you to experience it with me!

Be Inviting for Specific Events

Some people feel more comfortable visiting a church for a special event rather than a regular service. Look for seasonal events, like Christmas Eve services, where our “Save a Seat” campaign makes it easy to extend a warm invitation. These gatherings create a festive, welcoming environment that can help first-timers feel at ease.

Sentence Starters:

“Our church is hosting a Christmas Eve service, and it’s always so beautiful. If you’d be interested, I’d love to have you as my guest!”

 

“Next month, Winter bible studies are starting up at my church. It’s a fun, relaxed time to hang out with everyone and learn more about the Bible together. If you’re free, you should totally come!”

Be Yourself and Extend a Casual Invitation

Sometimes, a simple, casual invitation without any extra “push” is the best approach, especially for people you already know well. Letting them know that your invitation is open-ended and low-stakes can help them feel more comfortable saying yes—or “not now.”

Sentence Starters:

“Hey! Just thought I’d mention that you’re always welcome to join me at church anytime. No pressure, just an open invitation!”

 

“If you ever want to check out my church, you’re totally welcome to come along. It’s a really friendly place, and it’s been nice for me to be part of it.”

Inviting people to church doesn’t have to feel intimidating. With simple, heartfelt language, you can extend a warm invitation that shows your care and respect for others. By focusing on community, keeping things light and pressure-free, and showing genuine interest in their experience, you’ll create a welcoming atmosphere that could make someone’s first visit to church a memorable and uplifting one.